Question:
I guess I have a special preference in choosing partner. It is normal? I’m a 23 young Chinese girl. I failed in my relationship with those same age group. I wish can find a partner that is understand me and older than me. and I prefer he is a doctor. Because myself is in medical line. I more prefer my partner is in medical line.

Answer:
It is good to know ones preference with regard to finding a soul mate. There is nothing abnormal about that. At least you know what you want in life. You failed in your relationship with men of your age and now you like to try older men. You can try to get in contact with a dating service so that they can get you in contact with the person of your choice, an elderly and compassionate doctor. However you must know relationship is something that need to nuture and both parties need to make serious effort to make it work, otherwise it is going to be a failure. I wish you best luck in your quest.