Category Archives: Sexual Position

Hi,I’m 24 years old now, male. since 4-5 years ago, there are some white spots grow on my glans penis, however I feel nothing. As time goes by, I feel very embarrass and starting worry if it is a STD. What should I do now?

General, HIV/AIDS, Sexual Position, STDs
Question： Hi, I’m 24 years old now, male. since 4-5 years ago, there are some white spots grow on my glans penis, however I feel nothing. As time goes by, I feel very embarrass and starting worry if it is a STD. What should I do now? Answer: Frequently white spots appear around the ‘crown’ of the glans penis and some times all over the glans penis and these are actually harmless bumps known as pearly white papules. It has nothing to do with Sexually Transmitted Infections. There is nothing to be embarrassed about since the spots are not that visible and will not be offending to your partner and in case she ask you about the spots you can mention what I wrote here.

Is there anything we can do differently to speed up an orgasm?

General, Sexual Health, Sexual Position
Question:
It takes me forever to have an orgasm. My husband is so patient with me. He touches me in all the right places and it feels good. Is there anything we can do differently to speed up an orgasm?

Answer:
Recent studies on female orgasms reported women need to be mentally prepared and ready for a sexual encounter and cannot be rushed to sex. This means that what is happening to you might just be the issue of being rushed into lovemaking when you are actually not that ready. Maybe your husband needs to take it slow when come to arousing you. You need to lead him on and work your self into getting off at your own pace. This will also be rewarding to him since men feel great if they can make their partner climax. This is an ego thing for men.

The menstrual cycle date change after the wedding date?

General, Gynecology, Sexual Position
Original Question :
Hello doctor. Just wanted to know, will the menstrual cycle date change after the wedding date, my wife used to get her menstrual cycle every 28th day. But after the wedding it’s been more than 34 days now and she is not pregnant. I have got the pregnancy test done. Please let me know what could be the problem.
Answer:
You can give yourself full marks for being a caring husband. You mentioned that your wife’s menstrual cycle has been a perfect 28 days and since the wedding day, she missed almost 6 days and yet she is not pregnant. You are right. When a woman misses her period she maybe pregnant. Unfortunately that is not the rule, especially if there are situations that can cause the menstrual cycle to go haywire. In your wife’s case, if her delayed period is not a sign of a pregnancy, then this might be due to a hormonal upheaval, due to stress! Yes, the mind is most powerful and if it is disturbed then it can cause a disturbed menstrual cycle. Sooner or later she will get over her stress and her menstrual cycle will follow the usual rhythm of 28 days. However if it continues I would recommend visiting your local gynae for a checkup.

Poor Oral Care May Cause Sexual Problems

General, Sexual Position, STDs
A recent study has revealed erectile dysfunction can be linked to gum disease.
The research1, carried out on 70 male subjects, showed a correlation between gum disease and the ability to achieve an erection. The data indicates that as the severity of erectile dysfunction increased, so did the prevalence of chronic periodontitis (gum disease). Overall, more than four out of five men (81.8 per cent) with severe erectile dysfunction had gum disease. In comparison, in cases of mild erectile dysfunction, the incidence of gum disease was less than two in five men… click here for more

Should I give it a try to satisfy my partner’s strange fetish?

General, Sexual Health, Sexual Position
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Question:
My partner regularly asks whether he can lick my bottom. He says that if I give it a try, I would love it. Until now, I have vehemently rejected his requests, saying it is disgusting. Is it disgusting? Is it unhealthy? Is my partner gay? Should I give it a try to satisfy my partner’s strange fetish?

 

Answer:
Lovemaking is a mutual experience if both partners are enjoying it. It can be more exciting if both parties explore the wonders of lovemaking like changing positions and indulging in oral sex. Probably the cleanest organ of the body is the genital area as it is well covered and cleaned. The skin of the genitals is sensitive and touching with hands will not be as pleasant as compared to the lips and the tongue. There is no harm trying oral sex if one would like to experience something different in lovemaking. This would give a chance for the partner to get closer to you and to taste you literally.

I have a big time queef or vaginal fart each time me and my hubby perform doggy style. How to curb this problem?

Intimacy, Sexual Health, Sexual Position
youngQuestion:
I have a big time queef or vaginal fart each time me and my hubby perform doggy style. It amuses me a lot and Iʼm totally embarrassed because of this. How to curb this problem? Help!

 

Answer:
Queef or Flatus vaginalis is air coming from the vagina during or after sexual intercourse. In popular speech it is called a vaginal fart.

 

• Air is pumped into the vagina by the penis moving in and out. In some position this happens quite easily, like doggy position

• This air has to escape, making it sounds as if the girl is farting, but it comes from her vagina and is odourless.

• Of course this can be embarrassing, but it is no big deal when you are both able to laugh about it. Maybe you can make recording of it just in case it did not happen anymore!

 

 

 

 

There is no standard solution to avoid vaginal farting. But you could try the following:

 

1. If you do it ‘doggy style’ you can try to rise or lower your upper body, making the penis enter from a different angle.

2. Your partner can try short instead of long deep thrusts. When the penis stays in the vagina deeper, air might not be pumped in to begin with.

3. Change position.

4. Use a water-based lubricant when you start, applying it to your vagina opening and the are between your small lip, easy for the penis to slide into your vagina.

5. You can spread your legs more or keep them closer together. You can tighten your grip and during pelvic trust your partner keeps his penis inside till sex is over.

 

If you also pass flatus, the smell is of course revealing and don’t blame it to your vagina. Deep thrust can dispel gas accumulated in lower end of the colon and produce the flatus.

 

Missionary is not the only sexual position

Dr. Care Blog, Intimacy, Sexual Position
Position 1: The Sensational Straddle position1
Make the most of a cozy embrace with this floor position that’s sure to send sparks through both of you. Sitting face-to-face, wrap your legs around each other (usually easier for the woman to bring her legs up around her partner’s hips) and slowly bring yourselves closer and closer. While you’re moving towards union, this is a great time to lavish each other with intimate touching, caressing – even feeding. Steady eye contact, as well, can add to excitement. It’s exciting to go beyond the ‘basic moves’ of sexual positions. Here are a few ways to find new levels of sensitivity and spontaneity with different positions for intercourse. This position is one of the best for turning a condom into a real sexual stimulant. With both partners having their genitals within easy reach, unrolling the condom over his penis can be an erotic, stimulating experience. Meanwhile, he can use his fingers to explore (and excite!) inside of her. Once together, a gentle rocking will set the rhythm. Or for more acrobatic moves, try holding on to each other’s arms and lean as far back as you’re able. The trick is not to bounce, but to concentrate on the intense pleasure of your connection.Position 2: All things being equal (side-to-side) position2
For a warm, romantic angle on in-bed intimacy, nothing compares to lying side-to-side facing each other. Not only is this a cosy way to go heavy on the kisses and passionate embraces, it’s probably the most relaxed position, with no pressure from being on top or on bottom. Just take care not to pin down arms. Use them freely instead for stroking every inch of your partner. The woman should slide her top leg over the man’s hips, helping guide and time his entry. The man is also in the perfect position to fondle breasts as well as keep her close and tight. While not one of the more athletic positions, lying together certainly scores points for being ‘up close and personal.’ It delivers the greatest feeling of blissful togetherness and sharing. And no matter how vigorous you are, sexual intercourse actually burns as many calories (about 200) as running for 30 minutes! Not a bad way to stay fit, eh?

Position 3: Standing Room Only
Ever thought of sexual possibilities on the fly? In our go-go-go days, we often end up too tired at night to enjoy a good sexual encounter -so why leave it to after dark? Consider spontaneous sex out of the bedroom, especially once you’ve mastered the art of sex standing up. There are endless ways and places to practice this challenging position! The spontaneity of lifting a skirt and inviting a partner ‘in’ is one of the most arousing ways to initiate fast-and-furious sex. When standing, it’s likely the man will have to bend his knees to meet the height of his partner or be able to lift her gently around the buttocks. An alternative is to try standing at various heights on stairs (or even phone books) to find the perfect fit. Of course, closed in cubicles (like airplane lavatories) can help a woman prop herself against tight walls. Any strong back support makes it easier for her to slide down for oral sex or to sensually apply a flavoured condom with her mouth, rolling it on gently with her fingers. Even a sturdy tree on a bush walk is great support for this position (and beats groping on the ground)! position3 Position 4: Tables & Chairs Props can help initiate very interesting positions, especially for spontaneous sex. Using a sturdy table, chair or lounge, for example (where the woman sits on the edge), provides a unique height for entry either standing or kneeling. What’s more, for extra sensation the woman can wrap her legs around her partner at various angles to take equal part in the lift and thrust. This is often easier when hands are steadied on the table or chair, supporting her weight and strength. She’s also in a perfect position to help apply a condom, making it part of sensual foreplay and giving it full attention. Let your imagination run wild trying various heights that create different stimulation. Add a whole new meaning to ‘clearing the table after dinner’ or discover the power of the spin cycle by straddling the washing machine (timing’s important for this one!). And in the lounge room, why just lie on the lounge when ‘living on the edge’ adds more sexual spice. Go ahead and experiment with your furniture!
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Position 5: The Classic
Traditional love-making is usually comfortable in the classic ‘missionary position’ – where a couple is lying down face to face, with the person taking the dominant position on top. ‘Dominant’ here means the person on top tends to control more of the action and the degree of stimulation. Which is not to say the person lying down gets the shaft (so to speak) but in fact can play an enthralling part of receiving and returning pleasure. Advantages of this classic position are that it allows both partners to keep intimate eye-to-eye contact; it makes kissing and nuzzling easy; and it works both ways! While typically a man may be on top, extra arousal can come from the woman taking the upper spot and trying new gyrations and movements to reach ecstatic heights. What’s more, with the woman on top, applying a condom is more smoothly integrated into love-making -with ribbed condoms often being the style of choice for this position.
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