Question:
It takes me forever to have an orgasm. My husband is so patient with me. He touches me in all the right places and it feels good. Is there anything we can do differently to speed up an orgasm?
Answer:
Recent studies on female orgasms reported women need to be mentally prepared and ready for a sexual encounter and cannot be rushed to sex. This means that what is happening to you might just be the issue of being rushed into lovemaking when you are actually not that ready. Maybe your husband needs to take it slow when come to arousing you. You need to lead him on and work your self into getting off at your own pace. This will also be rewarding to him since men feel great if they can make their partner climax. This is an ego thing for men.
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Whenever I get my period, I seem to want sex more and I get aroused easily. This is extremely frustrating for me. Is this normal? What can I do to solve my predicament?
Question:
Whenever I get my period, I seem to want sex more and I get aroused easily. This is extremely frustrating for me. Is this normal? What can I do to solve my predicament?
Answer:
This is a common phenomenon for women and you are not alone. This happens because the libido hormone for women testosterone is at a higher peak than estrogen. Some women get off by letting their husband fondle their nipples and breasts. Some even go to the extent of allowing the husband to touch their labia and the clitoris. There are also cases of women having sex during period and to avoid menstrual flow these women stuffed tampon into the upper vagina. This is not advisable because the menstrual blood can flow backwards and cause endometriosis. You can make a choice. For Muslims they can still have non penetrative sex as this is permissible.
Whenever I get my period, I seem to want sex more and I get aroused easily. This is extremely frustrating for me. Is this normal? What can I do to solve my predicament?
Answer:
This is a common phenomenon for women and you are not alone. This happens because the libido hormone for women testosterone is at a higher peak than estrogen. Some women get off by letting their husband fondle their nipples and breasts. Some even go to the extent of allowing the husband to touch their labia and the clitoris. There are also cases of women having sex during period and to avoid menstrual flow these women stuffed tampon into the upper vagina. This is not advisable because the menstrual blood can flow backwards and cause endometriosis. You can make a choice. For Muslims they can still have non penetrative sex as this is permissible.
My husband is 46. Lately when we have intercourse his sperm ejaculation is less than before. Should I be concerned about this, or is it normal as men get older?
Question:
My husband is 46. Lately when we have intercourse his sperm ejaculation is less than before. Should I be concerned about this, or is it normal as men get older? I would appreciate any help on this matter.
Answer:
The volume of the male ejaculate (the semen) is dependant on the frequency of lovemaking, the quality of male climax and testosterone. The more frequent the man has sex the lower the semen volume will be. If he is very aroused his ejaculate will be more and if his testosterone level is low normal, the accessory sexual glands will be less active and will produce a small volume when he ejaculates. Taking Onions will not help. It will make lovemaking repulsive. Tell him to take water soluble extract of Tongkat Ali if he is keen to try herbal preparation. If this persists he may need to see his physician for a medical check to check his testosterone and other signs of Andropause. He may need Testosterone replacement therapy if the assessment is positive for Andropause.
My husband is 46. Lately when we have intercourse his sperm ejaculation is less than before. Should I be concerned about this, or is it normal as men get older? I would appreciate any help on this matter.
Answer:
The volume of the male ejaculate (the semen) is dependant on the frequency of lovemaking, the quality of male climax and testosterone. The more frequent the man has sex the lower the semen volume will be. If he is very aroused his ejaculate will be more and if his testosterone level is low normal, the accessory sexual glands will be less active and will produce a small volume when he ejaculates. Taking Onions will not help. It will make lovemaking repulsive. Tell him to take water soluble extract of Tongkat Ali if he is keen to try herbal preparation. If this persists he may need to see his physician for a medical check to check his testosterone and other signs of Andropause. He may need Testosterone replacement therapy if the assessment is positive for Andropause.
I’m not an anal sex fan, however, I was just wondering if it’s okay to actually have anal sex safely without the use of a condom. I mean, do feces get on the penis on insertion? If not, what about the other bacteria that are present in the anus — won’t they cause an infection?
Question:
I’m not an anal sex fan, however, I was just wondering if it’s okay to actually have anal sex safely without the use of a condom. I mean, do feces get on the penis on insertion? If not, what about the other bacteria that are present in the anus — won’t they cause an infection?
Asnwer:
You are on the right tract when you mentioned about the bacteria and the feces that might land on your penis. The bacteria might not do any harm to you but may cause harm to your partner if after pulling out your loaded penis from the anus you insert it straight into your partner’s vagina. If your partner has an infection already, not using the condom will endanger you if you have an abrasion on your penis. Feces and anal mucus also contains HIV/AID virus if one is inflicted with the infection. Wearing a condom is the least you can do to avoid infection from your partner or to avoid infecting your partner. Be wise – Use condoms whether you have straight sex or otherwise.
There are some black spots on my penis, will it affect anything?
Question:
There are some black spots on my penis, will it affect anything? Each time I have intercourse, I have quick ejaculation. I have done circumcision, it is due to this that it become more sensitive and trigger quick ejaculation?
Answer:
Any discoloration on the penis needs to be examined by the doctor if it has not been there before, so also the black spots. If the spot is a bump on the penile skin, it might be wart. Penile wart is contagious because it can spread to the female partner genital skin. Adult circumcision, expose the head of the penis that can be sensitive to touch. This can make the head of the penis sensitive during sex and fast to ejaculate. Maybe by applying local anesthetic gel or cream, the sensitive feeling can be overcome. If this is not helpful, then you probably need to be treated for rapid ejaculation. There is a medication that can delay ejaculatory response that can be prescribed to you for which you need to see a doctor.
There are some black spots on my penis, will it affect anything? Each time I have intercourse, I have quick ejaculation. I have done circumcision, it is due to this that it become more sensitive and trigger quick ejaculation?
Answer:
Any discoloration on the penis needs to be examined by the doctor if it has not been there before, so also the black spots. If the spot is a bump on the penile skin, it might be wart. Penile wart is contagious because it can spread to the female partner genital skin. Adult circumcision, expose the head of the penis that can be sensitive to touch. This can make the head of the penis sensitive during sex and fast to ejaculate. Maybe by applying local anesthetic gel or cream, the sensitive feeling can be overcome. If this is not helpful, then you probably need to be treated for rapid ejaculation. There is a medication that can delay ejaculatory response that can be prescribed to you for which you need to see a doctor.
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