Question:
Recently, I have been experiencing vaginal dryness during intercourse. I’m considering the usage of lubricants. What are the types I should look for? My partner uses condom and I heard that using Vaseline can damage it. Is this true?
Dry Spell, Cheras
Answer:
Vaginal dryness dampens sexual intercourse both for the woman and her partner since rubbing of sensitive dry skin brings pain and not pleasure. If the vagina is dry the chances are the woman is not fully aroused and if penetration is done a little bit too early then there is sexual displeasure. This needs to be rectified and the woman needs to indicate to her partner to penetrate once she is fully aroused and wet. Of course using vaginal lubricants help in facilitating sexual intercourse but may interfere with sperm viability.Waterbase lubricants are recommended since it is washable and not messy unlike oil based lubricant like Vaseline or petrolatum jelly and of course condoms do not do well with oil based lubricants since it can interfere with the integrity of the condom. The condom can break even under light pressure! The ESP Lubricating Gels would be a solution for you. It is close to nature!
Category Archives: Lubricating Gel
How to use ESP pleasure gel?
For vaginal sex:
A little lube/gel should be applied to the clitoris and outer and inner labia as part of foreplay.
For anal sex:
A little lube should be applied to the anus as part of foreplay.
For use with a condom:
A little lube can be added to the outside of the condoms just before insertion. A little lube/gel should also be applied to the clitoris and outer and inner labia of the receptive partner before penetration.The use of a condom usually requires a small increase in the amount of lubricant used.
Once the action has ended,cleaning with a moist wipe or similar material at the areas of application is recommended. ESP Pleasure gel and body fluids can easily be wiped off leaving the skin feeling refreshed.
A little lube/gel should be applied to the clitoris and outer and inner labia as part of foreplay.
For anal sex:
A little lube should be applied to the anus as part of foreplay.
For use with a condom:
A little lube can be added to the outside of the condoms just before insertion. A little lube/gel should also be applied to the clitoris and outer and inner labia of the receptive partner before penetration.The use of a condom usually requires a small increase in the amount of lubricant used.
Once the action has ended,cleaning with a moist wipe or similar material at the areas of application is recommended. ESP Pleasure gel and body fluids can easily be wiped off leaving the skin feeling refreshed.
Vaginal Dryness and Lubrication
Question:
I’ve never been able to produce natural lubrication, even when I’m horny and turned on, which makes it awkward and embarrassing during sex. I buy lube, but I’m still so confused as to why I can’t get wet. Is this normal and is there anything I can do about it?
Answer:
Many women of all ages run into vaginal dryness now and then. Never the less, a dry vagina feels uncomfortable and can make sex painful. The amount of vaginal lubrication varies from woman to woman, within a wide range of normal lubrication. The fluid itself is clear and relatively odourless. You may not take much notice of your vaginal fluid most of the time until you find yourself feeling dry when you should be the opposite when you are sexually aroused. Vaginal dryness can have a variety of causes. Your sensitive vaginal chemistry may be reacting to another kind of chemistry—harsh alkaline soaps, for example. On the other hand, you may be drying up as part of an allergic response to perfumes or dyes. As you get closer to the years of menopause, lowered estrogen levels may also cause dryness of the vagina. In addition, certain skin conditions may interfere with vaginal lubrication. It is normal for some women not to lubricate copiously when they are sexually aroused. It is also possible to lubricate without realizing it. If you are lying on your back, the moisture may pool in the back of your vagina, too far away to make sexual intercourse comfortable. The solution? Before intercourse, try dipping a finger into the vagina and drawing some of the lubrication out to coat the dry surface. Then again, you can use water-soluble lubricants.