It has been suggested that regular work out gives strength and control of the mind over the body and if this is used to extend or prolong the time in intercourse, the same principal should work! However it is not as easy as it seems. If one is used to ejaculate fast through previous experience at masturbation, then the same thing would occur if not faster when one attempts sexual intercourse. But if one were to exert control and ensure that the sensation received during sexual intercourse does not reach the breaking point, that is the point of no return that would trigger ejaculation, then one would achieved ones desire in extending the time in intercourse. There are many approaches to exert control and maybe one of them might be just the trick for you.
The following techniques will be beneficial in delaying ejaculation:
The most common method men use is pulling out before they reach the orgasm. This method stipulates that men must anticipate the sensation of an impending orgasm. All men can anticipate when they reach orgasm, and at that point, they must stop the stimulation immediately. Obviously the women will need to be cooperative and understand when that point arrives. After a few minutes, the erection should soften a little and lovemaking can resume.
This technique has obvious benefits. First, women will have plenty of time to reach their orgasm. Second, your orgasm will be delayed with a higher intensity than usual. Remember it is all about timing; just make sure to pull out when the time is right.
The “stop and start” method – in this method, the man learns to recognize the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating; he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes.
The squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby “cancelling” the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.
Desensitizing creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer. There are rubber penile constriction ring devices that can be placed at the base of the erect penis to give a firm grip and slight discomfort to the penis without injuring it. The dull unpleasant sensation will keep the mind off pleasant sensation that might trigger ejaculation and furthermore the constriction can keep the erection longer even if ejaculation has occurred. You can buy such devices in your friendly Pharmacy or local Medical Hall.
You can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.
Question: For ESP Fun Pleasures Condoms (Chocolate, amaretto and caramel flavors), is that really safe to use during oral sex? Is the flavored lubricant poisonous? Answer by R&D Manager:
All the flavours and sweetener are food grade and in compliance to FEMA GRAS and 88/388 flavour legislations making them safe for consumption. The silicone lubricant is also of pharmaceutical grade. Therefore, the condoms are safe for oral sex.
Question: Sometimes when I am riding a crowded public transport, I like to sort of bump or rub up against women. They usually just think that it is accidental. It gives me a little thrill, but I started thinking, is there anything wrong with this? Answer: Bumping and groping have always been associated with sexual enjoyment and cheap thrills at other peoples discomfort and suffering. Apparently this has been a pastime for Japanese males when they enter crowded subway trains. Sometimes these men go to extreme groping like thumbing, fingering and tweaking their victims as they become bolder and this can be a dangerous pastime when they are caught in the act or being assaulted by the ‘victim’. I would advise against doing all these. This cheap thrill is not worth the embarrassment if one is caught! Keep your hand to yourselves whenever you are in a crowded bus. If you accidentally bump a person do apologise.Who knows, this might be a beginning of a beautiful friendship if you fancy that person.
Question: My partner and I like to look in the mirror while having sex. Is there something wrong with our fascination about our bodies? I told this to our friends and they all started laughing. We thought it was not necessarily common, but not abnormal. Answer: Visual stimulation can be a powerful tool to enhance sexual mood and arousal to both partners and it is not surprising that both partners can get a real turn on when they are able to see their own bodies in action in the raw. There is nothing abnormal or unusual about this fascination. The mirror might just be the answer to your interest in self voyeurism which is harmless because it involves you and your partner looking at your selves in the raw form, and not looking at others, which can be against the law.
Question: At what age can a male impregnate a female? Can he ever be too young or too old? Answer: As long as the male child is able to ejaculate and produce semen that contains sperm, he is able to sire a child with any reproductive female. As long as the sperm cell is still available in the semen, a man of any age, however old his age may be will be able to impregnate any women in the reproductive age group. In a rare case of precocious puberty in males where signs of puberty appears before the age of 8,there is testicular enlargement as well as penile enlargement and penile emission do contains sperm cells. Normal puberty in boys can occur as early as 9 years old and if the boy is able to ejaculate and the semen contains sperm cells, he has the potential of being a father with any women in the reproductive age group.
It has been suggested that regular work out gives strength and control of the mind over the body and if this is used to extend or prolong the time in intercourse, the same principal should work! However it is not as easy as it seems. If one is used to ejaculate fast through previous experience at masturbation, then the same thing would occur if not faster when one attempts sexual intercourse. But if one were to exert control and ensure that the sensation received during sexual intercourse does not reach the breaking point, that is the point of no return that would trigger ejaculation, then one would achieved ones desire in extending the time in intercourse. There are many approaches to exert control and maybe one of them might be just the trick for you.
The following techniques will be beneficial in delaying ejaculation:
The most common method men use is pulling out before they reach the orgasm. This method stipulates that men must anticipate the sensation of an impending orgasm. All men can anticipate when they reach orgasm, and at that point, they must stop the stimulation immediately. Obviously the women will need to be cooperative and understand when that point arrives. After a few minutes, the erection should soften a little and lovemaking can resume.
This technique has obvious benefits. First, women will have plenty of time to reach their orgasm. Second, your orgasm will be delayed with a higher intensity than usual. Remember it is all about timing; just make sure to pull out when the time is right.
The “stop and start” method – in this method, the man learns to recognize the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating; he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes.
The squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby “cancelling” the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.
Desensitizing creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer. There are rubber penile constriction ring devices that can be placed at the base of the erect penis to give a firm grip and slight discomfort to the penis without injuring it. The dull unpleasant sensation will keep the mind off pleasant sensation that might trigger ejaculation and furthermore the constriction can keep the erection longer even if ejaculation has occurred. You can buy such devices in your friendly Pharmacy or local Medical Hall.
You can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation. 
