Question:
Why is that whenever I have sex with my boy friend, I don’t really feel that excitement, even when penis already went into my vagina, I don’t really feel there is something in there. I will only get orgasm when he touches my clitoris. We have sex for the past 3 months, my boy friend has experienced with his ex-es, but they were all fine. Why is that I am different? Furthermore, when I finished my period, I always feel itchiness and pain down there, why? Is it because of sanitary pads? I always put one layer of tissue paper on top of the sanitary pads, and always change sanitary pads, why is that so?
Answer:
Most women climax when their clitoris is stimulated and this is because it contains an extensive network of nerves. Some women who are conscious of their vagina might be able to experience vaginal climax when a certain area of the vagina gets stimulated. This area is concentrated in the upper portion of the vagina and about 2-4cm from the entrance of the vaginal entrance, an area known as the G-Spot or the AFE Zone. You can try to locate this spot by hooking your middle finger to that area and do a digital massage. You will experience a sudden urge to pass urine when you reach the spot. Of course the urge to pass urine is just a feeling that you will get when that spot is stimulated and if you continue the stimulation you might even ‘ejaculate’ and not pee! Regarding pain and itchiness of the vulva (the female external genital organs), it might be due to dryness or skin contact with the pad or both. You can apply some moisturizer before you put the pad. If there is pain it might indicate inflammation. If this persist you need to see your doctor because you might be suffering from vulvitis ( inflammation of the vulva) I would recommend that you apply a skin protectant formula recommended for vulva regularly, after bath.
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Why penis will bend suddenly?
Question:
My god brother’s penis curls for about one year already. In 2006, his penis was absolutely normal, but out of a sudden, it became curls to the left side;
1) Why that penis is will curl suddenly?
2) How to cure?
3) Is it because of masturbation?
4) Does it help by massaging?
Answer:
Penis does not curl but bends. If the bending is severe then lovemaking would be difficult. If the bend is mild and can me straightened when it is erect, then it is possible to perform lovemaking with the female partner. However in a condition known as Peyronie’s disease, the bending of the penis become progressively severe over time. This is because of the formation of plaque or hardening of the thick covering of the penis that become hardened for reasons unknown. I would advise your god brother to seek professional help rather than trying to handle this problem on his own. Massaging his penis might worsen the condition!
My god brother’s penis curls for about one year already. In 2006, his penis was absolutely normal, but out of a sudden, it became curls to the left side;
1) Why that penis is will curl suddenly?
2) How to cure?
3) Is it because of masturbation?
4) Does it help by massaging?
Answer:
Penis does not curl but bends. If the bending is severe then lovemaking would be difficult. If the bend is mild and can me straightened when it is erect, then it is possible to perform lovemaking with the female partner. However in a condition known as Peyronie’s disease, the bending of the penis become progressively severe over time. This is because of the formation of plaque or hardening of the thick covering of the penis that become hardened for reasons unknown. I would advise your god brother to seek professional help rather than trying to handle this problem on his own. Massaging his penis might worsen the condition!
The Psychology of Sex
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My Dad suggested me to do prostate massage once or twice within a week, is prostate massage any good?
Question:
I am 20 yr old, I lost my mum when I was very small, so all these while I am close with my dad, we are quite open in some sex related topics. Dad even brought me to do circumcision. When I was small, dad taught me to wash my rectum with hose water after passing motion, he said this is very hygienic. Besides that, he even massaged my prostate by putting his finger into my rectum. Now that I am grown up, he suggested me to do prostate massage once or twice within a week, is prostate massage any good?
Answer: Prostatic massage is usually done by doctors to express prostatic secretions in male patients with urethral discharge to look for the bugs that cause the infection. This is not a routine exercise even though prostate is believed to be the seat for the male ‘G-Spot. The best way to express out your prostate content is to masturbate! but not prostatic massage. Furthermore shoving your finger into your anal passage regularly to do prostatic massage will cause trauma to the mucous lining of that tract. I would not recommend you to continue with this habit.
Answer: Prostatic massage is usually done by doctors to express prostatic secretions in male patients with urethral discharge to look for the bugs that cause the infection. This is not a routine exercise even though prostate is believed to be the seat for the male ‘G-Spot. The best way to express out your prostate content is to masturbate! but not prostatic massage. Furthermore shoving your finger into your anal passage regularly to do prostatic massage will cause trauma to the mucous lining of that tract. I would not recommend you to continue with this habit.
Penis Enlargement Issue
Question:
Can you settle an argument and tell me whether any of the “natural” methods for penis enlargement are worthwhile?
Answer:
I assume natural methods of penis enlargement would include taking herbal preparation, penile massage, using vacuum erect aid device or jelquing (a contraption that pulls the soft penis to create some kind of inflammatory response ) or using a penile extender device, Andropenis (www.andromedical.com). I must admit the various natural penile enlargement pills mentioned in the various websites that claim miraculous effect of these pills are just difficult to believe. Most of these natural herbs are just testosterone boosters like Tribulus, maca, epimedium and long jack (tongkat ali) which might be useful for men with low testosterone and hardly for guys with normal testosterone with undersize genitals.The vacuum pump when used will facilitate blood flow into the penile musculature and will make the penis appear ‘big’. Once the vacuum effect is released, the size will remain the same. If the vacuum device is used regularly and frequently, one may risk developing blisters and blood clots. Experience with the vacuum pump device for enlargement of penis has been reported as disappointing and most of the guys who have been duped to use the device end up with getting an elongated penile skin! rather than the penis. The penile extender which has been in the global market has been evaluated to the best ever device in managing crooked penis ( Peyronie Disease) as well, as the under size one. The Andropenis has been evaluated and scientifically proven to be effective in correcting curved penis as well as undersize penis. The device need to be worn at least 9-10 hours at a stretch to create the tissue response to pressure, that is formation of new cells and extension of the stressed tissues. Results are obvious after a minimum use of 3 months or more. Most of the scientific reports are found in the website www.andromedical.com. This device has been available in Malaysia since two years and more than 200 sets have been sold.
Answer:
I assume natural methods of penis enlargement would include taking herbal preparation, penile massage, using vacuum erect aid device or jelquing (a contraption that pulls the soft penis to create some kind of inflammatory response ) or using a penile extender device, Andropenis (www.andromedical.com). I must admit the various natural penile enlargement pills mentioned in the various websites that claim miraculous effect of these pills are just difficult to believe. Most of these natural herbs are just testosterone boosters like Tribulus, maca, epimedium and long jack (tongkat ali) which might be useful for men with low testosterone and hardly for guys with normal testosterone with undersize genitals.The vacuum pump when used will facilitate blood flow into the penile musculature and will make the penis appear ‘big’. Once the vacuum effect is released, the size will remain the same. If the vacuum device is used regularly and frequently, one may risk developing blisters and blood clots. Experience with the vacuum pump device for enlargement of penis has been reported as disappointing and most of the guys who have been duped to use the device end up with getting an elongated penile skin! rather than the penis. The penile extender which has been in the global market has been evaluated to the best ever device in managing crooked penis ( Peyronie Disease) as well, as the under size one. The Andropenis has been evaluated and scientifically proven to be effective in correcting curved penis as well as undersize penis. The device need to be worn at least 9-10 hours at a stretch to create the tissue response to pressure, that is formation of new cells and extension of the stressed tissues. Results are obvious after a minimum use of 3 months or more. Most of the scientific reports are found in the website www.andromedical.com. This device has been available in Malaysia since two years and more than 200 sets have been sold.
String Her Along
Question:
I saw in an FAQ that many men were asking about how they could perform in the bedroom longer. Well my question is: Is there a way to get her to perform longer? We’ll both be engaging in sex for about 45 minutes, and a few minutes after making her orgasm twice, she’ll tell me that it is starting to hurt. Please let me know if there is something I can do. Thanks.
Answer: Not everybody can be a sexual athlete. If both partners can perform, then they are made for each other. If one partner can and the other cannot, the partner who must be able to accept the fact that his/her partner is not equipped with that special thing to make them perform as a sexual athlete. After all sex is not a performance, it is a special intimate act that runs smoothly, comfortably and without coercion and at the end both parties enjoy each other and cherished the moments rather than enduring the discomfort and displeasure. Nobody is keeping the score board or the time here. If you are doing just that then what you are doing is not lovemaking, just plain sex. Most women when they have climaxed will feel tired and their vaginal secretions will subside. They need another round of TLC before they are wet enough for another round of lovemaking. The third one will always be the most difficult, because they will be too tired and will not respond to TLC! If lovemaking were to be forced it will be like rape! The best thing you can do is to listen to her and maybe let her masturbate you if she is still awake or do again when she is fresh in the morning provided she is in the mood for it.
I saw in an FAQ that many men were asking about how they could perform in the bedroom longer. Well my question is: Is there a way to get her to perform longer? We’ll both be engaging in sex for about 45 minutes, and a few minutes after making her orgasm twice, she’ll tell me that it is starting to hurt. Please let me know if there is something I can do. Thanks.
Answer: Not everybody can be a sexual athlete. If both partners can perform, then they are made for each other. If one partner can and the other cannot, the partner who must be able to accept the fact that his/her partner is not equipped with that special thing to make them perform as a sexual athlete. After all sex is not a performance, it is a special intimate act that runs smoothly, comfortably and without coercion and at the end both parties enjoy each other and cherished the moments rather than enduring the discomfort and displeasure. Nobody is keeping the score board or the time here. If you are doing just that then what you are doing is not lovemaking, just plain sex. Most women when they have climaxed will feel tired and their vaginal secretions will subside. They need another round of TLC before they are wet enough for another round of lovemaking. The third one will always be the most difficult, because they will be too tired and will not respond to TLC! If lovemaking were to be forced it will be like rape! The best thing you can do is to listen to her and maybe let her masturbate you if she is still awake or do again when she is fresh in the morning provided she is in the mood for it.
Is there any medication to abort without going to doctor?
Question:
Myself and my husband had intercourse on 15th day after my menstrual cycle. I am so scared that I will get pregnant since we didn’t have any protection. If I got pregnant and I came to know during my 1 month – Is there any medication to abort without going to doctor?Answer:
May you be reminded that unprotected intercourse, even during the so called ‘Safe Period’ can still lead to unwanted pregnancy. Therefore it is always recommended that one use some form of contraception if one is not planning for a baby soon. In the event you are pregnant and not keen for the pregnancy, then you need to see a doctor that can offer you a safe abortion. You can go for medical abortion (provided this option is available in your place/Country) if your pregnancy is early, that is not more than 9 week pregnant. That too if you are suitable for that option. If you are not a suitable candidate then your doctor will talk to you about surgical technique, namely the abortion by aspiration. In whatever ways, you still need to see a doctor and not try anything at home. With regards to Medical Abortion, the information below might be of interest to you. Whatever is your choice you still need to discuss this with your Medical Health Care provider.
Medical Abortion with Mifepristone and Misoprostol
Too Slippery for Sex
Question:
My partner has been telling me that recently when we’re having sex she gets “too wet” and that it numbs her up and she can’t orgasm. Is that possible? I have no idea what to do, please help!
Answer:
Sex can be a wonderful experience if both parties enjoy every moment of it. If one party feels uncomfortable, the other party needs to make adjustment to ensure the issue is resolved. Sometimes it takes courage to make an appointment with the Sexologist or Therapist to discuss the situation and to get professional remedy. Being too wet can be a turn off to both the woman and her partner. Sometimes it is the women that feel the displeasure since the wetness is due to her partner’s precome secretions that were too abundant to her liking. If that is an issue, the partner needs to take antihistamine before having sex so that his precome is less copious. If on the other hand the copious secretions are coming from her she need to get herself examined if the secretions are due to vaginal irritations caused by some irritants or contaminations. This condition is known as leucorrhea or white discharge. Sometimes mild vaginal irritation can cause the discomfort and the numbing or blistering feeling and leucorrhea. If the secretions are just the result of hyperactive cervical secretions or vaginal mucosal lining, the secretions can also be reduced by taking antihistamines prior to sex. She can soaked her private part with alum to tighten the mucosa or take capsules of Oak Gall extract (available in most pharmacy as an OTC Product) and if all these measures are futile, she needs to see a Gynecologist.
My partner has been telling me that recently when we’re having sex she gets “too wet” and that it numbs her up and she can’t orgasm. Is that possible? I have no idea what to do, please help!
Answer:
Sex can be a wonderful experience if both parties enjoy every moment of it. If one party feels uncomfortable, the other party needs to make adjustment to ensure the issue is resolved. Sometimes it takes courage to make an appointment with the Sexologist or Therapist to discuss the situation and to get professional remedy. Being too wet can be a turn off to both the woman and her partner. Sometimes it is the women that feel the displeasure since the wetness is due to her partner’s precome secretions that were too abundant to her liking. If that is an issue, the partner needs to take antihistamine before having sex so that his precome is less copious. If on the other hand the copious secretions are coming from her she need to get herself examined if the secretions are due to vaginal irritations caused by some irritants or contaminations. This condition is known as leucorrhea or white discharge. Sometimes mild vaginal irritation can cause the discomfort and the numbing or blistering feeling and leucorrhea. If the secretions are just the result of hyperactive cervical secretions or vaginal mucosal lining, the secretions can also be reduced by taking antihistamines prior to sex. She can soaked her private part with alum to tighten the mucosa or take capsules of Oak Gall extract (available in most pharmacy as an OTC Product) and if all these measures are futile, she needs to see a Gynecologist.
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The Wandering Eye
Question:
Hello, I have a question for you. Why is it that when men find a woman, one woman isn’t enough? Why do they think they have the right to check out everybody else in the world and visit the flesh market on the Internet every chance they get? Why is it that men don’t think that looking at naked women is wrong against their mate? That it’s entertainment for them? They have no moral values. That’s what’s wrong with the world today. Why can’t a man be content with the woman he’s got?
Answer:
I am afraid there is no one answer to that question. If one were to trace the origin of man one is reminded of the cave man antics when it comes to sex, that is, they will mate with as many cavewomen as they can to breed and expand the flock. Women are their common possession. If one were to refer to the Biblical Scriptures one will be reminded of Abel and Cain, or Habil and Qabil the sons of Adam and the main reason for Cain to kill Abel is because of his passion for Abel’s would be wife, his very own sister! In the same scriptures one is reminded of the Prophet David who impregnated Bathsheba, the wife of his loyal soldier and how he became impotent as the result of that! One is also reminded that one is made to respond and answer to one’s biological need and that is sex. One is reminded of this ancient Hindu belief that once man and woman were one and due to some curse, they were separated and since then their bodies have been wondering to be together, may be with many bodies before they are settled with the right one! Sigmund Freud the father of Psychoanalysis has always reminded us that we are made to be sexual and that is seen by our attitude and behaviour, after all who made the twin towers or any towers those are in actuality a representation of the phallus or the ‘lingam’ (penis) and the various shopping malls, houses and garages those are in actuality the representation of the cunnus, or the ‘yoni’ (vagina).Having said all that we are indeed a sexual being .God has given us that special element that has brought us above all living things and that is the thinking mind that gives us the power to be in control of our lives which also includes our sex drive and lust. Therefore we are responsible to our own doings. We need to take charge of ourselves. Then the World will be a lovely place to live and everybody is happy. Then there is no World!
Hello, I have a question for you. Why is it that when men find a woman, one woman isn’t enough? Why do they think they have the right to check out everybody else in the world and visit the flesh market on the Internet every chance they get? Why is it that men don’t think that looking at naked women is wrong against their mate? That it’s entertainment for them? They have no moral values. That’s what’s wrong with the world today. Why can’t a man be content with the woman he’s got?
Answer:
I am afraid there is no one answer to that question. If one were to trace the origin of man one is reminded of the cave man antics when it comes to sex, that is, they will mate with as many cavewomen as they can to breed and expand the flock. Women are their common possession. If one were to refer to the Biblical Scriptures one will be reminded of Abel and Cain, or Habil and Qabil the sons of Adam and the main reason for Cain to kill Abel is because of his passion for Abel’s would be wife, his very own sister! In the same scriptures one is reminded of the Prophet David who impregnated Bathsheba, the wife of his loyal soldier and how he became impotent as the result of that! One is also reminded that one is made to respond and answer to one’s biological need and that is sex. One is reminded of this ancient Hindu belief that once man and woman were one and due to some curse, they were separated and since then their bodies have been wondering to be together, may be with many bodies before they are settled with the right one! Sigmund Freud the father of Psychoanalysis has always reminded us that we are made to be sexual and that is seen by our attitude and behaviour, after all who made the twin towers or any towers those are in actuality a representation of the phallus or the ‘lingam’ (penis) and the various shopping malls, houses and garages those are in actuality the representation of the cunnus, or the ‘yoni’ (vagina).Having said all that we are indeed a sexual being .God has given us that special element that has brought us above all living things and that is the thinking mind that gives us the power to be in control of our lives which also includes our sex drive and lust. Therefore we are responsible to our own doings. We need to take charge of ourselves. Then the World will be a lovely place to live and everybody is happy. Then there is no World!