Question:
I have been married for 1 year. My wife and I have less than 10 times intercourse because each time she feels pain during penetration. What should I do?

Answer:
First intercourse can be daunting for most women when they are trying to relax their vaginal opening to allow penetration of the penis. In fear, the vaginal entrance muscles can go into spasms and it will make penetration and lovemaking activities uncomfortable to the women, especially if the vagina is less lubricated. You wife needs to learn to relax her vaginal muscles to facilitate your penis to penetrate. She can use artificial lubricant like the ESP Natural Gel until she is confident with penetrative sex. Relaxing the vagina like in the process of avoiding urine or passing bowel can be used as a tip for her to allow your penis to penetrate her. If the pain still persist, then she needs to see her Gynecologist to inspect her genital area in case she has some inflammation of her vagina.