Question:
It takes me forever to have an orgasm. My husband is so patient with me. He touches me in all the right places and it feels good. Is there anything we can do differently to speed up an orgasm?

Answer:
Recent studies on female orgasms reported women need to be mentally prepared and ready for a sexual encounter and cannot be rushed to sex. This means that what is happening to you might just be the issue of being rushed into lovemaking when you are actually not that ready. Maybe your husband needs to take it slow when come to arousing you. You need to lead him on and work your self into getting off at your own pace. This will also be rewarding to him since men feel great if they can make their partner climax. This is an ego thing for men.