Question:
I’m a married woman with 3 kids. After I give birth my 3rd child I found that each time I intercourse with my husband after a few second my vaginal is too wet that cause no feeling and I hardly got orgasm. Why?

Answer:
It is normal for there to be an increase in vaginal secretions during sexual excitement and intercourse, and this can vary from time to time, perhaps reflecting your hormone status and time of your period cycle. Sometimes it can appear excessive, but if it is clear and not offensive, then this is nothing to worry about. However if the secretion is foul smelling, yellowish, green or flaky white, this might indicate infections. Then you need to see your friendly Gynecologist. When the vagina is soppy wet and slippery, you will not feel the penis and your husband will not feel your grip.He might however still ejaculate because of the “wet” sensation. You need to do the pelvic floor exercise (Kegel exercise) whenever you feel like doing it. This will tighten your vaginal passage and make it possible for the penis to apply enough pressure to the various points in your vaginal walls to make you to achieve orgasm. In addition, if your husband’s penis (the base ) can apply enough pressure to your clitoris, then you can achieve clitoral climax as well.