Original Question:
Ok, this is really strange. As I have gradually gotten older, I have totally lost my sex drive. I know about Viagra and other enhancements, but this isn’t about that.
I noticed today when I masturbated, that my penis is bent downwards.
I don’t think I have that disease that starts with a P, no obvious fibrous tissue growth and no trauma.
I don’t masturbate as much as I used to at least once or twice a day. Now, more like once or twice a month.
But this curve downwards is enough to make me notice. I do have a piercing and I like tight underwear which does make my penis bend down.
But I have had my piercing for years and I have always worn tight underwear. I need the support. I am larger than most guys and it just feels better.
I was thinking that since I don’t exercise it and keep it curled up in my pants, could this be the reason it’s starting to bed? And can I straighten it back out? I’m freaked out big time.

Answer:
There is this saying ‘If you don’t use you lose’. That goes with your penis. All these while you use it regularly like you mentioned, once or twice a day. This is not happening now and that is why your erection is not as firm as before. That same thing happens to your pelvic floor muscles that buck up your penis during erection. If that muscle is weak, it cannot lift up your penis. That’s why your penis appears bent during erection. There are other factors though with regards to the bending or curving downwards of your erect penis. You wear tight underwear which makes your penis bent down. This is ‘parking’ issue. If you park your penis upwards, then during erection it remains up! Otherwise it will remain humble as it is happening now. You also mentioned that you are large. The gravitational pull will not spare your penis during erection! The pierce you did to your penis does not cause the bend unless you put weights! There you are. The cat is out of the bag. You need to work on your pelvic floor by doing the Kegel Exercise.

(If you are a man, strengthening the PC muscle can help you develop firmer erection and greater ejaculation control. To identify that PC Muscle: Imagine you are urinating. Now squeeze the muscles you would as if you were cutting off the flow of urine. Those are your PC muscles. Now let go and try it again. You are contracting the anterior or frontal part of the PC muscle. Now squeeze your muscles as if you were trying to prevent yourself from passing gas — this is the posterior part of the PC loop. We are all pretty much, “tight asses”–we hold too much tension in these muscles. The challenge is to learn to relax these muscles at will. Now do the posterior squeezes rapidly five times in a row. Try to be conscious of relaxing your anus after every squeeze. Try not to squeeze your thighs, butt or abs–just the PC. You can do basic PC muscle Kegels pretty much anywhere, at work, in traffic, reading the Internet).You can get more details of this exercise in any website. However don’t expect miracles. You will probably see some improvement. But still age is catching up!