Question:Warm regards to you. I like to know why and how and ways to overcome it. My question is my level of climax is too fast.Not even 2 minutes. Why is that so? Thank you.

Answer:
You are actually suffering from a condition known as rapid ejaculation and this happens because you do it in a hurry! When you are doing it in a hurry you will lose your focus and concentration and will ejaculate fast besides not getting what you and your partner aim for. Imagine you are doing a run and you make a dash from the very beginning, you will find yourself pretty exhausted halfway and will not be able to compleete the run. The same thing will happen to you when you make love to your partner in the same manner. You start your love making with heated passion. This will make you lose your concentration and focus. This willl result with you losing control and ejaculate. Try to take it easy by first warming up and take time to do the penetration. Firm up the pelvic floor muscles when you do the penetration and contol your pelvic thrust when you penetrate. Keep the penis in the vagina when you maintain the pelvic thrust so that the tip of the penis gets less pressure. You can put more pressure to the vaginal opening with the base of your penis and when you are ready you can do rapid pelvic thrust to increase pressure to the vaginal entrance, focussing on the clitoris and roof of vagina. As you are doing the pelvic thrusting you continue firming up your pelvic floor muscles so that in the event you ejaculate your erection is still firm enough to give more stimulation to the vagina to make your partner climax. This technique of lovemaking is known as Coital Alignment Technique. You need to practice this technique regularly to get use to it. If you still have problems you need to consult a doctor.