Question:
My god brother’s penis curls for about one year already. In 2006, his penis was absolutely normal, but out of a sudden, it became curls to the left side;
1) Why that penis is will curl suddenly?
2) How to cure?
3) Is it because of masturbation?
4) Does it help by massaging?
Answer:
Penis does not curl but bends. If the bending is severe then lovemaking would be difficult. If the bend is mild and can me straightened when it is erect, then it is possible to perform lovemaking with the female partner. However in a condition known as Peyronie’s disease, the bending of the penis become progressively severe over time. This is because of the formation of plaque or hardening of the thick covering of the penis that become hardened for reasons unknown. I would advise your god brother to seek professional help rather than trying to handle this problem on his own. Massaging his penis might worsen the condition!
Monthly Archives: September 2008
The Psychology of Sex
“What do you see in him?” “She’s amazing!” Ever wonder where your sexual response comes from?
My Dad suggested me to do prostate massage once or twice within a week, is prostate massage any good?
Question:
I am 20 yr old, I lost my mum when I was very small, so all these while I am close with my dad, we are quite open in some sex related topics. Dad even brought me to do circumcision. When I was small, dad taught me to wash my rectum with hose water after passing motion, he said this is very hygienic. Besides that, he even massaged my prostate by putting his finger into my rectum. Now that I am grown up, he suggested me to do prostate massage once or twice within a week, is prostate massage any good?
Answer: Prostatic massage is usually done by doctors to express prostatic secretions in male patients with urethral discharge to look for the bugs that cause the infection. This is not a routine exercise even though prostate is believed to be the seat for the male ‘G-Spot. The best way to express out your prostate content is to masturbate! but not prostatic massage. Furthermore shoving your finger into your anal passage regularly to do prostatic massage will cause trauma to the mucous lining of that tract. I would not recommend you to continue with this habit.
Answer: Prostatic massage is usually done by doctors to express prostatic secretions in male patients with urethral discharge to look for the bugs that cause the infection. This is not a routine exercise even though prostate is believed to be the seat for the male ‘G-Spot. The best way to express out your prostate content is to masturbate! but not prostatic massage. Furthermore shoving your finger into your anal passage regularly to do prostatic massage will cause trauma to the mucous lining of that tract. I would not recommend you to continue with this habit.
Penis Enlargement Issue
Question:
Can you settle an argument and tell me whether any of the “natural” methods for penis enlargement are worthwhile?
Answer:
I assume natural methods of penis enlargement would include taking herbal preparation, penile massage, using vacuum erect aid device or jelquing (a contraption that pulls the soft penis to create some kind of inflammatory response ) or using a penile extender device, Andropenis (www.andromedical.com). I must admit the various natural penile enlargement pills mentioned in the various websites that claim miraculous effect of these pills are just difficult to believe. Most of these natural herbs are just testosterone boosters like Tribulus, maca, epimedium and long jack (tongkat ali) which might be useful for men with low testosterone and hardly for guys with normal testosterone with undersize genitals.The vacuum pump when used will facilitate blood flow into the penile musculature and will make the penis appear ‘big’. Once the vacuum effect is released, the size will remain the same. If the vacuum device is used regularly and frequently, one may risk developing blisters and blood clots. Experience with the vacuum pump device for enlargement of penis has been reported as disappointing and most of the guys who have been duped to use the device end up with getting an elongated penile skin! rather than the penis. The penile extender which has been in the global market has been evaluated to the best ever device in managing crooked penis ( Peyronie Disease) as well, as the under size one. The Andropenis has been evaluated and scientifically proven to be effective in correcting curved penis as well as undersize penis. The device need to be worn at least 9-10 hours at a stretch to create the tissue response to pressure, that is formation of new cells and extension of the stressed tissues. Results are obvious after a minimum use of 3 months or more. Most of the scientific reports are found in the website www.andromedical.com. This device has been available in Malaysia since two years and more than 200 sets have been sold.
Answer:
I assume natural methods of penis enlargement would include taking herbal preparation, penile massage, using vacuum erect aid device or jelquing (a contraption that pulls the soft penis to create some kind of inflammatory response ) or using a penile extender device, Andropenis (www.andromedical.com). I must admit the various natural penile enlargement pills mentioned in the various websites that claim miraculous effect of these pills are just difficult to believe. Most of these natural herbs are just testosterone boosters like Tribulus, maca, epimedium and long jack (tongkat ali) which might be useful for men with low testosterone and hardly for guys with normal testosterone with undersize genitals.The vacuum pump when used will facilitate blood flow into the penile musculature and will make the penis appear ‘big’. Once the vacuum effect is released, the size will remain the same. If the vacuum device is used regularly and frequently, one may risk developing blisters and blood clots. Experience with the vacuum pump device for enlargement of penis has been reported as disappointing and most of the guys who have been duped to use the device end up with getting an elongated penile skin! rather than the penis. The penile extender which has been in the global market has been evaluated to the best ever device in managing crooked penis ( Peyronie Disease) as well, as the under size one. The Andropenis has been evaluated and scientifically proven to be effective in correcting curved penis as well as undersize penis. The device need to be worn at least 9-10 hours at a stretch to create the tissue response to pressure, that is formation of new cells and extension of the stressed tissues. Results are obvious after a minimum use of 3 months or more. Most of the scientific reports are found in the website www.andromedical.com. This device has been available in Malaysia since two years and more than 200 sets have been sold.
Sexual Activities Other Than Intercourse Carry Risk Of STIs, Study Finds
Sexual activities other than intercourse carry some risk of sexually transmitted infections, according to a report from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists published recently in the journal Obstetrics and Gynecology, Reuters reports. An ACOG committee said that although many people engage in “noncoital” sexual activities — such as oral sex, mutual masturbation and anal sex — in an attempt to prevent pregnancy and reduce the risk of STIs, these sex acts come with some degree of STI risk, and it is important for people to protect themselves.
Richard Guido and colleagues wrote in the report that “[n]oncoital sexual activity is not necessarily ‘safe sex.’” Guido added, “Most people, including adolescents, are unlikely to use condoms during oral sex, which places them at risk for acquiring” an STI. He added, “This unlikelihood is partly because of a greater perceived safety compared with intercourse.” …. Click here for more
Richard Guido and colleagues wrote in the report that “[n]oncoital sexual activity is not necessarily ‘safe sex.’” Guido added, “Most people, including adolescents, are unlikely to use condoms during oral sex, which places them at risk for acquiring” an STI. He added, “This unlikelihood is partly because of a greater perceived safety compared with intercourse.” …. Click here for more
String Her Along
Question:
I saw in an FAQ that many men were asking about how they could perform in the bedroom longer. Well my question is: Is there a way to get her to perform longer? We’ll both be engaging in sex for about 45 minutes, and a few minutes after making her orgasm twice, she’ll tell me that it is starting to hurt. Please let me know if there is something I can do. Thanks.
Answer: Not everybody can be a sexual athlete. If both partners can perform, then they are made for each other. If one partner can and the other cannot, the partner who must be able to accept the fact that his/her partner is not equipped with that special thing to make them perform as a sexual athlete. After all sex is not a performance, it is a special intimate act that runs smoothly, comfortably and without coercion and at the end both parties enjoy each other and cherished the moments rather than enduring the discomfort and displeasure. Nobody is keeping the score board or the time here. If you are doing just that then what you are doing is not lovemaking, just plain sex. Most women when they have climaxed will feel tired and their vaginal secretions will subside. They need another round of TLC before they are wet enough for another round of lovemaking. The third one will always be the most difficult, because they will be too tired and will not respond to TLC! If lovemaking were to be forced it will be like rape! The best thing you can do is to listen to her and maybe let her masturbate you if she is still awake or do again when she is fresh in the morning provided she is in the mood for it.
I saw in an FAQ that many men were asking about how they could perform in the bedroom longer. Well my question is: Is there a way to get her to perform longer? We’ll both be engaging in sex for about 45 minutes, and a few minutes after making her orgasm twice, she’ll tell me that it is starting to hurt. Please let me know if there is something I can do. Thanks.
Answer: Not everybody can be a sexual athlete. If both partners can perform, then they are made for each other. If one partner can and the other cannot, the partner who must be able to accept the fact that his/her partner is not equipped with that special thing to make them perform as a sexual athlete. After all sex is not a performance, it is a special intimate act that runs smoothly, comfortably and without coercion and at the end both parties enjoy each other and cherished the moments rather than enduring the discomfort and displeasure. Nobody is keeping the score board or the time here. If you are doing just that then what you are doing is not lovemaking, just plain sex. Most women when they have climaxed will feel tired and their vaginal secretions will subside. They need another round of TLC before they are wet enough for another round of lovemaking. The third one will always be the most difficult, because they will be too tired and will not respond to TLC! If lovemaking were to be forced it will be like rape! The best thing you can do is to listen to her and maybe let her masturbate you if she is still awake or do again when she is fresh in the morning provided she is in the mood for it.
Is there any medication to abort without going to doctor?
Question:
Myself and my husband had intercourse on 15th day after my menstrual cycle. I am so scared that I will get pregnant since we didn’t have any protection. If I got pregnant and I came to know during my 1 month – Is there any medication to abort without going to doctor?Answer:
May you be reminded that unprotected intercourse, even during the so called ‘Safe Period’ can still lead to unwanted pregnancy. Therefore it is always recommended that one use some form of contraception if one is not planning for a baby soon. In the event you are pregnant and not keen for the pregnancy, then you need to see a doctor that can offer you a safe abortion. You can go for medical abortion (provided this option is available in your place/Country) if your pregnancy is early, that is not more than 9 week pregnant. That too if you are suitable for that option. If you are not a suitable candidate then your doctor will talk to you about surgical technique, namely the abortion by aspiration. In whatever ways, you still need to see a doctor and not try anything at home. With regards to Medical Abortion, the information below might be of interest to you. Whatever is your choice you still need to discuss this with your Medical Health Care provider.
Medical Abortion with Mifepristone and Misoprostol