Question: Sometimes when I am riding a crowded public transport, I like to sort of bump or rub up against women. They usually just think that it is accidental. It gives me a little thrill, but I started thinking, is there anything wrong with this?
Answer: Bumping and groping have always been associated with sexual enjoyment and cheap thrills at other peoples discomfort and suffering. Apparently this has been a pastime for Japanese males when they enter crowded subway trains. Sometimes these men go to extreme groping like thumbing, fingering and tweaking their victims as they become bolder and this can be a dangerous pastime when they are caught in the act or being assaulted by the ‘victim’. I would advise against doing all these. This cheap thrill is not worth the embarrassment if one is caught! Keep your hand to yourselves whenever you are in a crowded bus. If you accidentally bump a person do apologise.Who knows, this might be a beginning of a beautiful friendship if you fancy that person.